Events

Fourth Saturdays in Calabasas

OASIS is our signature half-pool, half-play party designed entirely by and for sapphics. Whether you want to get tied up, make out by the pool, or simply lounge in the femme gaze looking criminally attractive... this is your space.

💋 Femme-for-femme energy

🖤 Clothing-optional pool surrounded by hard points and hammocks

🍷 Craft cocktails, snacks, and lounge spaces

⛓ Fully equipped dungeon with kink furniture and dedicated playrooms

☁ Low-stim aftercare sanctuary

📸 Photobooth & portrait studio

Fifth Saturdays at Threshold Society in North Hollywood

Our quarterly AFTER DARK series is where we turn the dial up. These themed dungeon parties are fully
immersive nights featuring curated performances, interactive activities, kinky sapphic play in a fully equipped dungeon, and themes that shape the entire experience.

🌙 Curated performances

🔮 Interactive activities

🔥 Kinky sapphic play in a fully equipped dungeon

🎭 Themes that shape the entire experience

Third Thursdays at Risky Business in North Hollywood

The Sapphic Slosh is our take on a munch: a low-pressure social night for sapphics who want to connect without jumping straight into play. You do not need to be a vetted member to attend.

🥂 Craft cocktails, exotic beer, mead on tap, absinthe (yes, with fire 🔥), and nonalcoholic options

🪩 Dance floor, DJs, pool tables, food trucks and kinky local vendors

💬 Mingling, flirting, and actually talking to each other

✨ A perfect entry point into our community, and the best place to get vetted on the spot (no more waiting!)

💞 Come solo, leave with a new bestie (or three)

SUGAR is a munch created for BIPOC sapphic kinksters, creating space for queer women and sapphic folks from diverse cultural backgrounds to meet, make friends, and celebrate the beautiful intersections of our identities. This is the perfect place to mingle with our community before coming to our private events. No experience is required.

🍯 A welcoming space for the BIPOC sapphic community


💬 Mingling, conversation, and opportunities to build genuine connections


✨ Delicious food, beer, cider, wine, craft and frozen cocktails (non-alcoholic options also available)


💞 An immersive wasteland-themed environment (costumes welcomed, but not required)